He knew i was raped last month, nd he was cuddling me being nice, then whispered in my ear.......?

He just got caught up on the heat of the moment. He was too engrossed being horny that he failed to be sensitive to your feelings. You have two cases here, 1. he could have feelings for you and when you were cuddlly with him, he just got carried away by his feelings or lust that he forget about your problem. he could have felt guilty after you left.2. He could have never cared about you at all. He maybe was using you cause he thinks you are vulnerable to him. For example, he may have think that an emotional lady will be very submissive when she is sad. 3. he could have just been a jerk and a sadist. My suggestion is to avoid him and if he shows remorse. You could listen to his side of the story and then decide whether you want him as ur friend again. You have to made your own judgement. Choose wisely. Wish u luck!